Taaruf 2 · First Meeting, Who Is This Person?
Questions for getting to know each other at a first taaruf
Taaruf is the process of getting to know a prospective spouse with marriage in mind. Family or a trusted intermediary is often present.
Questions for the first meeting and the first month — for meeting a person, not a résumé.
Starting from tangible things like hobbies and how you rest, they move slowly toward values, faith, and direction.
How it works
- Cut out the cards, shuffle them, and pick one you can talk about today.
- Answer for yourself first, then share only as much as you're comfortable sharing.
- If something doesn't need deciding right away, feel free to mark it and carry it over to your next conversation.
When · with whom
Good before a first taaruf, when you want to calmly get to know each other together with the intermediary or family.
Taaruf 2 · First Meeting, Who Is This Person?
- Arrival
- Name
- Ease
- Curiosity
- Pace
- Free Day
- Enjoyment
- Recovery
- Laughter
- Learning
- People
- Prayer
- Home
- Mosque
- Guidance
- Practice
- Difference
- Marriage
- Ordinary Day
- Values
- Near Future
- Far View
- Place
- Work
- Intention
- Starting Point
- First Impression
- Intermediary
- Next Time
- Closing