Thirty-One Nights of Questions · Love
Slowly tending the heart that cares
A journal with one question each night, filling in the days one by one.
The sets are divided by "what lens shall I look at myself through" — Me · Love · Love-and-Hate · Food · Life, five in all.
This sheet is "Love" among them. Not only a lover's story — it covers all the heart's caring, for family, friends, and yourself.
How it works
- Before sleep, read the question in that night's box.
- Write whatever comes to mind, within two lines. It doesn't have to be long.
- If you note the date in its box, you'll see the path when you look back later.
- It's fine if you skip a night. Just pick up where you left off.
When · with whom
A night journal to write alone. Suits a time when you've long cared for someone.
Questions about "Love"
- Was there a moment today when you felt how much you care for someone?
- How do you usually express the care you feel?
- Have there been feelings that came through in actions rather than words?
- Of all the things someone has done for you, which do you still remember?
- What are you doing when you feel loved?
- When you picture the face of someone you care about, what do you see first?
- Is there a kind word you didn't get to say today?
- Who makes you laugh?
- Is there someone who's been by your side so long that you've forgotten to be grateful?
- Have you ever felt your feelings had cooled?
- What did you do after you felt your feelings had cooled?
- Is there a kind of affection you're not good at receiving?
- Do you tend to hold back from saying sorry?
- Who knows you best?
- Is there someone who stayed by your side without saying a word?
- Have you ever found it hard to tell someone you liked them?
- Is there a habit you changed because of someone?
- Is there anything that remains even after you parted ways?
- What kind of love did you grow up seeing?
- To you, what does love resemble?
- Is there something you did today to be kind to yourself?
- Is there something you do to keep from hating yourself?
- Have you ever forgiven someone?
- Is there something you haven't been able to forgive yet?
- When was the last time you heard 'I love you'?
- Is there someone whose belongings or habits you always find yourself looking after?
- Is there someone you'd like to grow old with?
- Could time alone also be a way of caring for yourself?
- Is there someone you haven't shared a meal with in a long time?
- If you told someone how you feel today, who would it be?
- After thirty-one nights, has anything changed in how you think about love?