Taaruf 1 · Before Taaruf: Am I Ready?
Questions for checking my readiness before taaruf
Taaruf is the process of getting to know a prospective spouse with marriage in mind. Family or a trusted intermediary is often present.
Questions for looking back, before taaruf, at how your heart is preparing for marriage and life together.
They slowly ask about what you'll actually face living together — faith, family, money, housework, conversation.
Designed not to pick right answers, but to notice where your readiness stands now and what still needs to be said.
How it works
- Cut out the cards, shuffle them, and pick one you can talk about today.
- Write your own answers first, alone, then share only as much as you can together.
- If something doesn't need deciding right away, feel free to mark it and carry it over to your next conversation.
When · with whom
Good for checking your own readiness before taaruf, or for a calm conversation with someone who is thinking about marriage.
Taaruf 1 · Before Taaruf: Am I Ready?
- Right Now
- Wind
- Alone
- Your Strength
- A Hard Week
- As You Are
- Waiting
- Growth
- The Familiar
- Tiredness
- Daily Life
- Unthanked Work
- A Stranger
- Apology
- Arguments
- Promises
- What You Will Not Give Up
- Practice
- Forgiveness
- Anger
- The First Ten Minutes
- Comfort
- A Wound
- Dinner
- Proof
- What You Carry
- Enough
- Providing
- What They May Expect
- Household
- Sharing the Load
- Favorite Spot
- Where You Turn
- What You Grew Up Seeing
- Timetable
- Preparing
- Staying With It
- Maghrib
- Worry