Talking Again After an Argument
Questions to help the two of you start talking again on the night after a fight
Thirty-nine cards to help the two of you sit down face to face again after a fight.
They slowly open up the questions you need before and after making up: the words you swallowed, how you really feel, the old cycle that keeps repeating, and what to say first.
Rather than quickly sorting out who was right and who was wrong, they're arranged to help you gently find each other's feelings and what to say next.
How it works
- Cut out the cards, shuffle them, and draw one, starting with a question you can talk about today.
- Please listen to the end before correcting or pushing back on an answer.
- If feelings flare up again, it's okay to stop and pick this up next time.
When · with whom
Good for dating or married couples who want to start talking again after a fight.
Talking Again After an Argument
- Words Swallowed
- What Was Underneath
- What You Hoped For
- A Line of Your Own
- Something You Wonder
- Something Older
- Letter
- The Shape You Take
- Noticing
- Body
- Your Guard
- When You Are Alone
- Growing Up
- Settling
- Sorry
- Going First
- The Moment It Loosens
- Listening
- Coming to Meet You
- Letting It Pass
- Ending Well
- What you've put up with for me
- A Late Discovery
- Clumsy Feelings
- Gratitude
- Standing Up for You
- In Their Voice
- A Signal for Making Up
- Laughter
- Snack
- Animals
- An Old Argument
- Alike After All
- One Thing
- A Repeating Pattern
- Lessons
- Promises
- What Worked Before
- Even So