This or That Questions
Two paths, no right answer. Which side am I on?
Thirty-nine cards that lay out two paths with no right answer and get everyone talking about which side they stand on.
Since both sides are right, like security and adventure, or honesty and consideration, there's no winning or losing.
They're written to make it a time for hearing why someone chose, more than which side they chose.
How it works
- Cut out the cards, place them face down in the middle, and sit around them.
- Draw a card and read both paths out loud.
- Each person shares which side they stand on, and why.
- If everyone adds a word about what's good on the other side, the conversation opens up even more.
When · with whom
Good for two to six people. It gets the conversation going easily, even among people who've just met.
This or That Questions
- Comfort · Adventure
- Honesty · Consideration
- Alone · Together
- Wide · Deep
- Now · Later
- Words · Time
- City · Nature
- Remembering · Forgetting
- Questions · Answers
- Fast · Slow
- Planning · Spontaneity
- Changing · Accepting
- Your Judgment · Advice
- Perfect · Done
- Giving · Receiving
- New · Familiar
- Courage · Caution
- Process · Result
- Love · Freedom
- Holding Back · Speaking Up
- Family · You
- Work · Life
- Care · Independence
- Money · Meaning
- Making Up · Distance
- Memories · Truth
- Waiting · Deciding
- Parent · You
- Apology · Explanation
- Promises · Flexibility
- Present · Past
- Body · Mind
- Marriage · Dating
- Forgiveness · Responsibility
- Lightness · Depth
- Taking Sides · Fairness
- Leaving · Staying
- Words · Actions
- The Way You Say It · Your Heart